Why Decl for 13 years does not communicate with his father Alexander Tolmatsky?
In the early 2000s, the name Decl became practically a well-known Russian brand. This boy gave a start to the beginning of the movement of the mass wave of hip-hop in our country. A popular teenager quickly became an idol and the envy of millions of children. And without his famous track “Party at Decla House” neither she had a school disco.
But not everyone knows what Decl’s world has shown to his world father - music producer Alexander Tolmatsky. It was he who felt great potential in his son, because of what he took a chance and put a lot of money and effort into Cyril. Alexander did not lose. But what did both of them subsequently cost this popularity?
About Father Decl
The biography of Alexander Tolmatsky is full of many contradictory facts. It is interesting, for example, that the future producer received two educations far from music. Alexander Yakovlevich Tolmatsky graduated first from the Moscow Institute of National Economy, and then from the institute of the dairy and meat industry.But this did not prevent him from becoming the first successful DJ in Moscow, and then also producer of Oleg Gazmanov, the bands “Combination” and “East”.
But, despite all the creative achievements of Alexander, many remember him and know only as a man who opened the world to Decl.
About Decl's family
At 23, Alexander Tolmatsky marries a girl Irina. After a while, the couple had a son, Cyril.
According to his wife Irina, Alexander Yakovlevich Tolmatsky had a great talent in the field of clothing. "He sewed like a god," said Irina. Therefore, initially he made jeans to order, with the funds from which he fed the family.
Actually, because of this, according to the story of his wife Irina, once he even went to prison. The true reasons for getting there Alexander were in the distant past, but one of the version is considered illegal use of branded stripes by men.
The moment of arrest was seriously worried by all family members. But it was especially difficult for Irina. While her husband was in prison, searches were conducted in their apartment, but they did not find anything. After all, the Tolmatsky family simply was eating all the money from a small business. There was simply no money left to save something.
But soon this difficult time ends. Alexander begins to earn serious money legally, move ahead as a producer and win a high rank in the sphere of Russian show business.
About the love of a turnip
When Cyril was 12 years old, his father decided to send him to study in a closed Swiss school. There the boy gets acquainted with a turnip. It was this time that marked the beginning of the first serious hobby of Cyril hip-hop culture.
A year later, the next decl returns home. Alexander Tolmatsky sees dreadlocks on his son’s head, notices his interests revolving around turnips, and decides to try to make a child a star in this sphere. I must say that mother Irina was categorically against it.
About the emergence of Decl
When Cyril was 14 years old, his father decided to present him as a gift a music video with him in the lead role. This was the beginning of Decl’s grand career and his appearance on the stage. The video blew up all the television charts and won the top spots in the charts. Nobody expected such success, even Alexander himself.
Kirill begins his successful career. He writes songs and tours with them throughout the country.You can say for sure that Decl became a child, symbolizing the era of the 90s. Everyone has learned about him: from children to old people.
About the collapse of the Tolmatsky family
But it turned out that this is not forever. In the early 2000s, Alexander Tolmatsky in one of the nightclubs, met with the dancer Anna - the same age as Decl. At that time, both the son and the chosen one of the producer were 17 years old. A man falls in love and subsequently leaves her family.
Mother Decla Irina hard going through parting. But it was even more difficult for Cyril. Because of the huge resentment against his father, the guy ends his relationship with his father. Unfortunately, this affected not only their personal relationships, but also their professional activities. Decl leaves the stage and stops all concert activity.
About the new Tolmatsky life
Married to Anna, Alexander Tolmatsky has two children: the boy Fedor and the girl Anfisa. Children know about the existence of Cyril, his picture even stands with his father on the table, but no more. Resentment at Alexander in Cyril was so strong that he refused to maintain any relationship with his brothers and sisters.
Cyril also got married, he had a son in his marriage.Alexander Tolmatsky saw his grandson only a few times.
To this day, the relationship between father and son, unfortunately, is not established. According to Alexander Tolmatsky, for 10 years he tried to start communicating with his son again. But now he has come to terms with this state of affairs.
The true reason for their quarrel has not yet been clarified. Each side has its own point of view. Alexander believes that Cyril can not forgive him for leaving the family and understand that sometimes people just diverge.
Irina, the mother of Decl, says that the son was only a musical project for his father. Alexander was often too demanding, rude and unjust to Cyril. And it is precisely because of this that intergenerational relations have not yet been restored.
Cyril in most interviews simply does not comment on this situation.
Now Kirill continues to write music, but his huge popularity remains in the distant past. Maybe someday Decl will reappear on the big stage and, as before, millions will sing along with him.
We also hope that someday the father and the son will still find a common language again and will restore the important connection between generations for each person.