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Never waste your time and energy on those to whom you are indifferent
Never blame someone else’s responsibility for what is happening in your life. I understand that the temptation is great, but pity yourself. Only at that moment when you internally make this decision - “I am the author of my failures and the creator of my successes,” you will gain strength.
Accept the fact that the past does not change, it is over. Only our future is subject to us, which directly depends on what we are doing now, at each given, particular minute. Do not expect that the future will smile upon you; make it so that it cannot help you smile.
Get rid of the illusion that you can change other people. Subconsciously, we all suffer from this naive delusion, and as a result we suffer in the truest sense of the word. Only circumstances change people, everything else is just a deception of perception.Let them be different, and at some point you will even begin to enjoy it.
This is sad news, but there's nothing to be done about it: we are needed by other strong ones. Weak, tired, suffering, unhappy - we are not needed by anyone. If they pretend that things are somehow different, then they simply mislead you. Do not give in! Agree with the absoluteness of this rule, exhale, shake yourself, and you will understand that there is nothing to be upset about.
All our actions will have certain consequences. And, in fact, we always choose not what we will do, but what will be as a result of this our action. Therefore, before you do any nonsense, think carefully about its consequences, and then there will be much less nonsense in your life.
Every normal person wants a comfortable retirement, and, the earlier, the better, and preferably right now, right away. This is a chimera. And not because there can not be a comfortable pension, but because a person needs to work. Realize this, and then your daily work will begin to bring you joy.
Each of us will die. This is inevitable and medical fact.It is possible to suffer and suffer because of this, but you can make an effort and leave this topic once and for all. Do not live as if you will live forever. And don't live like dying to you tomorrow. Comprehend both of these statements, and you will find your own recipe for a happy life.
If you are wondering about the meaning of life, most likely it’s just depression. What is important is not a specific "meaning of life", but the feeling that you live meaningfully. Do what you consider important internally. Do not forget to tell yourself about it. And do not pursue success. If you just do what you feel is important, success will catch up with you.
Never waste your time and energy on those to whom you are indifferent, or even worse, on those who do not love you. In this world, a great many people with whom to live life in joy. Just do not have to be closed and suspicious. Believe me, being open and kind, you do not lose anything.